When I was a child I believed:
1. God dictated
the Bible, word for word, and it was literal truth.
2. There was
one true church, and I was a card carrying member. The rest were false.
3. Black people
were not like “us.”
4. For the good
of society, men should lead; women should follow men’s guidance. Strong women could only lead other women or
children.
5. Sex was to
be enjoyed only by married couples.
Singles should remain celibate their entire lives.
6. Homosexuals
were very strange and very sinful. It
should be noted that I was probably a teen-ager before I even knew what a
homosexual was.
7. Divorced
people were weak, selfish and lacked sufficient fortitude to keep a promise.
Today I believe:
1. Humans wrote
the Bible, inspired by their understanding of God at the time. Little of it is literal truth or accurate
history; much of it is poetry, metaphor and mysticism.
2. There is One
True Church, and we are all members of it, every one of us.
3. Our
relegating any ethnic group of people as “other” is heartbreaking.
4. Are you
kidding me?
5. Sex is a
natural expression of the human need for connection and pleasure and should be
enjoyed by responsible, respectful adults.
6. I
wholeheartedly support gay marriage.
7. I fully
understand divorce and society’s need for it.
I cite these examples for one purpose; to demonstrate that
people can and do change. I am living
proof that people can evolve, grow, question, seek and find. Because of these changes of heart and mind, and many more
like them, I understand there are beliefs and attitudes I hold today that are
wrong, or at best, immature. Thus, to
argue vociferously for the absolute rightness of any position I now hold would
be to risk having to backtrack later.
Some of you knew me back when and know of what I speak.
If I know this to be true of me, I assume it is also true of
you. I assume it is true of President
Obama and of Mitt Romney. People can
learn and change; I know this for a fact.
Societies can evolve and progress.
Cultures can adapt and expand.
The God I know today, though he may not have dictated the
Bible, is a powerful force in the hearts and minds of people. He does not need me to argue my position in
the town square. He needs me to trust
what I know.