Today is the beginning of the sixth week of unemployment. Someone mentioned last night how much more relaxed I appear. How did I appear before? Scary thought.
My cousin, Margaret, sent me a book rec. Trusting her judgment I bought the book and find it very intriguing. LEAP! What Will We Do with the Rest of Our Lives? by Sara Davidson explores the experience of baby boomers who are faced with 20-30 more years of living but no longer want to (or can't) do what they have always done. She interviews numerous boomers who are rounding that corner and making a wide variety of conscious choices.
Personally, I'm enjoying relaxing and at the same time asking myself what I really want to do. Most of my adult life I have "fallen into" occupations rather than making a conscious choice. However, two conscious choices in the past do stand out.
John and I made the decision to step out of life as we knew it and move to Big Bend country to manage a little motel and restaurant owned by a group of folks in Switzerland. What an adventure that was! I still view it as one of the best choices this city girl ever made.
Upon returning from our 2 years in Big Bend, I made the conscious decision to go into "spiritual work." I had no credentials, no theology degrees, no ordinations or certifications. I just knew that if I could spend time exploring reality and Reality with other folks I would feel fortunate. And sure enough with each client I met with and each poem I wrote, I did indeed feel privileged.
Both of those choices rewarded me with some of the most satisfying and challenging experiences in my life, thus far. Both of these decisions followed a time of deep introspection and learning to trust deep intuition. I think I'll try that again.